Has this happened to anyone else? The air quality in mom's house is so bad, that I wondered if it may have contributed to her recently discovered Leukemia. Also, I am sad, frustrated, mad, and other strong emotions with which I am struggling. Knock, knock, hello world. Can anyone relate to this? On top of dealing with my mom being in ICU for a solid month, I have had to become POA (and discovered a crazy sick amount of debt that she has generated in the past 10 to 15 years), and am struggling to resolve some of these issues. Today when I went to see her, she mentioned that she is having more breathing problems because her breathing is "wonky" in the afternoon because she is stressed that we are "distributing her estate before she is gone", when all we are doing is trying to clean up some storage lockers that she really, really can't afford. She is behind in so many bills, has not paid her property tax since 2011 (What?!!!!) and though she "feels sorry" to have caused such a mess for us to deal with, she seems angry that we have not been able to consolidate 2 storage lockers contents in just a few days. To quote Bruce Willis' character in "Die Hard", I am feeling pretty "fu#$*ng" unappreciated. Anyone out there have any words of encouragement or advice? TYVM
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